How to Deal with Social Smoking Triggers
There are a lot of traps for those who want to quit smoking. One of the major ones is social
smoking. It is not just about being in a group of people that are using tobacco products. There are
different psychological sides to it. You are part of a community so you feel stronger and accepted. This gives you
confidence. Besides, it is much better to hold a cigarette and smoke at a social gathering compared to just
standing there and getting more and more nervous.
All of these factors make it difficult to quit smoking. Your task is to try to eliminate the need for
social smoking. This does not mean that you should stop seeing your friends who have this habit
for good. You just need to make some modifications to your lifestyle for the time being.
Tell your friends who smoke that you plan to quit and ask them to respect this decision of yours. The
reality is that smokers want to quit, but find it difficult to try so you should expect understanding, support and
encouragement rather than withdrawal. You should explain to your friends delicately that you may not be
part of the group for a few weeks until you overcome the cravings and the symptoms of withdrawal. It is a good idea
to ask them to quit together with you. However, you should not demand that they stop smoking in your presence as
this may lead to conflict and hamper your efforts.
Replace smoking during the coffee and lunch breaks at work with a healthy activity. It is important not to join
the smokers' group. You can readily go for a walk after having a lunch at a non-smoking restaurant. If you think
that you need to be in the company of people, you can join a group of co-workers who do not smoke during the
breaks.
Avoid restaurants and bars where you can smoke. Try not to go to parties where a lot of people will be smoking.
This is not easy especially if you are a very social and active person. However, you do not have to make it more
difficult than it actually is.
Instead of going to a bar, you should enjoy a sports activity with a group of friends. You can play basketball
or football. If you think that you will be tempted to smoke at a party, organize another event for you and your
loved one or a bunch of friends. You can go see a show or have a pleasant dinner at a fine restaurant.
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