Helping Your Child to Quit Smoking
The number of children who smoke grows every year and the age at which they start is lower. It
has been found that one in seven children under the age of 15 is a smoker. It is your duty as a
parent to help your child quit smoking in order to protect them from disease, premature aging and the increasing
social marginalization of smokers.
It is worth looking at the things that will not help your child quit smoking first.
Regrettably, many parents react emotionally to the problem and choose the seemingly easier path for aiding their
children which involves prohibitions, restrictions and sometimes even emotional and physical abuse. It is natural
to be frustrated and upset when you find out that your child is a smoker. However, you should not act based on
emotions. You need a plan based on rational ideas. You need to be delicate, patient, understanding and
supportive.
Engage your child in a friendly conversation and ask why they have started smoking. Find out more about their
smoking habits. Try to make your youngster comfortable about sharing. Do not make the conversation appear as
interrogation. Ask questions that will help you figure out why your kid has started lighting up. It may be because
of peer pressure and because they want to be part of a social group. It may be due to problems at school or even
due to problems at home.
Discuss the dangers of smoking with your child. It is important to pinpoint the serious health risks, but since
young people believe that only old people get ill, you may want to focus on the immediate effects of tobacco use
such as skin problems, bad breath and discolored nails. Try to explain to your child that this habit is generally
not well accepted in social circles, even though it may be popular with their friends.
Present to your child some alternatives to smoking. There are plenty of other cool activities
that they can enjoy apart from smoking in the corner of the school yard with a bunch of friends. You can encourage
your child to participate in a sport and to engage in a new hobby that corresponds to their interests.
Give your total support to your child when they are trying to quit smoking. You must not preach and act like a
police officer, but be there when you are needed and provide motivation and advice. If you smoke, you must make an
attempt to quit together with your child.
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