How to Quit Smoking - Helping a Friend Quit
The main thing that you need to know about quitting smoking is that it is very hard. This is because of the
physical addiction to nicotine and the psychological addiction to the habit of lighting up. You have to be aware of
these facts when trying to help a friend quit. Use some practical advice that will channel your goodwill into
effective actions.
Accept the fact that your friend who is trying to quit smoking will be jittery and irritable and feel
down for considerable periods of time. Your task is to remain calm and to try to help your friend relax as
well. Doing fun things together such as going to a sports game or seeing a show will help. You may want to engage
your friend in a physical exercise that both of you enjoy. Being physically active helps to overcome tobacco
cravings immensely.
Use various methods to give your friend extra motivation to quit smoking. You need to understand that they will
be going through a great struggle to stay away from cigarettes. Even if a smoker is super determined, they will
experience great weakness at times. You should try to remind your friend of the health benefits that they will
enjoy as a non-smoker. It is important to know their personal reasons for quitting and to remind them of those.
Be there for your friend when they need you. You should try to be available most of the time. Similarly, you
should be prepared for long conversations and even for fights. The important thing is not to give up on your
friend. You need to realize that you have made a commitment and that the wellbeing of someone who you love is at
stake.
Avoid preaching and judging your friend who is trying to quit smoking. You have to be and stay
positive. It is not appropriate to tell them that it is about time they quit because of aged looks or bad breath.
Focus on the benefits and be optimistic. The latter is really important as a lot of smokers feel weak when it comes
to their addictive habit. You should never talk about failure or the possibility of relapsing unless your friend
mentions it and wants to share their fears.
Do not get frustrated with your friend if they relapse. Remain positive and optimistic and
encourage the person to try again. One of the most motivating facts is that each failed attempt to quit smoking
increases the chances of success by 20 per cent.
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